I don’t think a person can say they love God very much if they don’t attend church regularly. The Bible instructs us to worship God in His house on a regular basis. Do you remember how you used to “hang out” at your wife’s place when you were still dating? They couldn’t have kept you away with mortar fire! That’s what love does!
Jesus established the church. He loved the church and gave Himself up for her. While the people of God, not a building, are the church, the institutionalized church is the historic vehicle for the people of God to come together. The physical church, a facility, has been part of spiritual life since ancient times. Before they met in buildings (temples or synagogues), they met in tents. King David’s last act was a building fund drive for a new temple for God.
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