{"id":7185,"date":"2019-09-30T04:18:59","date_gmt":"2019-09-30T04:18:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/churchedge.com\/illustrations\/index.php\/2019\/09\/30\/to-minister-touch\/"},"modified":"2019-09-30T04:18:59","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T04:18:59","slug":"to-minister-touch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/to-minister-touch\/","title":{"rendered":"To Minister, Touch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There was on the teaching staff at Emory Divinity School a psychologist by the name of Dr. Charles Gerkin.  He was quite renowned within his field, having written several books.  All students were required to take a course under Dr. Gerkin which amounted to small group psychotherapy.  Dr. Gerkin taught his students: No minister will ever get close to a person who he is unwilling to physically touch.  If you are not willing to touch a homeless person, or an alcoholic, or a terribly dirty person, you physiologically are unwilling to minister to them.<\/p>\n<p>Larry Daniel, a student of Dr. Gerkin and now minister of First United Methodist Church in Murray Kentucky, said \u201cthis teaching came home to me when I had my first church member with full-blown aids back in 1988.  I have had one other since then.  He was in Methodist Hospital in Memphis and in rather a bad way.  I was told by the nurse at the desk that I should put on rubber gloves to go into his room.  Are these necessary? I asked.  The nurse replied: I work with AIDS patients all day long and I would not think of going into a patient\u2019s room without wearing gloves.  Well, I thought, she is the expert not me, so I put on this latex pair of gloves.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When I entered his room he immediately extended his hand, and when I reciprocated that glove was very obvious.  Frankly, I was embarrassed.  I apologized for it.  When I went home that day I reflected upon the words of Dr. Gerkin: you will never draw close to a person who you are unwilling to physically touch.  In future trips to the hospital, therefore, the gloves came off.  I simply felt that I could not be Christ\u2019s representative in that situation unless there was direct touch contact.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>SermonIllustrations.com, February, 2000.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There was on the teaching staff at Emory Divinity School a psychologist by the name of Dr. Charles Gerkin. He was quite renowned within his field, having written several books. All students were required to take a course under Dr. Gerkin which amounted to small group psychotherapy. Dr. Gerkin taught his students: No minister will [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23,679,5064,5063,3465],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7185"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7185"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7185\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}