{"id":5950,"date":"2019-09-30T04:11:17","date_gmt":"2019-09-30T04:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/churchedge.com\/illustrations\/index.php\/2019\/09\/30\/how-to-handle-bullies\/"},"modified":"2019-09-30T04:11:17","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T04:11:17","slug":"how-to-handle-bullies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/how-to-handle-bullies\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Handle Bullies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was adopted by missionaries, and I grew up in Africa and Lebanon.  When I came back to the United States, I started hanging around with the wrong crowd, and I&#8217;m now in prison for something I&#8217;m not responsible for.<\/p>\n<p>The prison assigned me to work in the kitchen.  Another inmate &#8211; a big man &#8211; also worked there, and he didn&#8217;t like me.  One day he told me that if I came back to work the next morning, he would beat me up bad.<\/p>\n<p>Later I told my cellmate and another inmate what had happened, and they asked me what I planned on doing about the threat.  I said I didn&#8217;t know, but I did plan on going to work.  My cellmate told me I had better take his shank (knife) to work for protection.<\/p>\n<p>I thanked him, but that night I had a dream that gave me the impression I should pray about the situation.  I wasn&#8217;t much for praying, but I did anyway.  The next morning when I got up, I was feeling pretty good until my cellmate gave me the shank.  Instantly I had a strong feeling that if I expected God to help me, I should trust Him.  And what better way than to go to work without the knife?  So I gave it back.  My cellmate warned me that I was being stupid.<\/p>\n<p>I was scared when I went to work.  When my persecutor caught me alone, he asked why in the world I had come back after what he had said.  Trying not to show my fear, I looked him right in the eye and said, \u201cYou are a bully, and me and bullies have never gotten along very well!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He looked like somebody had just whipped him.  I learned that day that I did not have to resort to violence.  All I had to do was ask for help from \u201cthe Man upstairs.\u201d  Now I thank Him every time I pray.<\/p>\n<p>________<\/p>\n<p>Source: Signs of the Times, Copyright (c) February 2005, Pacific Press, http:\/\/www.signstimes.com<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was adopted by missionaries, and I grew up in Africa and Lebanon. When I came back to the United States, I started hanging around with the wrong crowd, and I&#8217;m now in prison for something I&#8217;m not responsible for. The prison assigned me to work in the kitchen. Another inmate &#8211; a big man [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[298,453,546,1226,2783,691],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5950"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5950"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5950\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5950"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5950"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.churchedge.com\/illustrations\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5950"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}