The important role of spiritual mentors.
I. Spiritual guides are helpful.
A. Example of friend pointing out birds.
B. Has a long history among believers.
1) Jesus and 12 disciples.
2) Outsiders sought out Jesus for his wisdom.
3) Paul and Timothy.
4) Examples in church history.
C. Descriptive terms.
1) Spiritual director.
2) Spiritual friend / companion.
3) Guide.
II. Few have a spiritual friend.
A. Seventy percent of Americans have many acquaintances but few
close friends.
1) Mobility of society? Culture of entertainment?
2) More likely: exposing our inner selves frightens us.
a) Cuts against “rugged individualism.”
b) Undercuts our direct dependence on God.
1> We distrust human spiritual authority.
B. Opening up to others can lead to growth.
1) We are isolated because of fear or pride.
III. The benefits of a spiritual mentor.
A. We can expect to find immense support simply from another’s
presence.
B. A guide can help us make sense of everyday life.
C. They help us ground our spiritual life in something more solid
than our own feelings.
1) They can point out our spiritual blind spots.
2) They can remind us of our priorities.
3) When depressed, they can remind us we are cherished by God.
IV. What to look for in a spiritual friend.
A. Someone who will listen, and encourage honest sharing.
B. Someone who will create a climate of encouragement.
1) Unjudging and unshakable.
C. They focus us on Christ and Christlikeness.
1) Focus is not on personality, but on coming to know God better.
V. Sources of spiritual mentors.
A. Daily contacts.
B. House-churches and home Bible studies.
VI. Mentors can lead to significant spiritual growth for us.
A. We learn by the example of others.
B. We gain new insight or courage.